And "What Happens To A Dream Deferred?..."

Im not waiting to find out and neither should you.


"Hold fast to your dreams for when dreams die life is a broken winged bird that cannot fly"
By Langston Hughes 


Spread your wings and fly ...I SEE you!

Dare 2B U...

POEM
U are...a child of creativity, product of originality, magnificent in your beauty, powerful in your regality, 
So hold up your head stoically and rise. 
Shed not a tear upon the ignorant, waste not a thought on the intolerant, let not bitter tongues dent your pride. 
For you are a child of great beauty, hypnotic in your regality, blessed with originality and if their eyes are too blind and they Are too 2D to see, 
Then they will have existed without truly living a life...

101+different ways of saying 'I love you'

The English dictionary describes love as deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness. 

Here 'I love you' as defined in relationships between people, with translations from many different languages and dialects.

1. Afrikaans - Ek is lief vir jou
2. Albanian - te dua
3. Alentejano (Portugal) - Gosto De Ti, Porra!
4. Alsacien (Elsass) - Ich hoan dich gear
5. Amharic (Aethio.) - Afekrishalehou
6. Arabic - Ana Ahebak / Ana Bahibak
7. Armenian - yes kez shat em siroom
8. Assamese - Moi tomak bhal pau
9. Assyr - Az tha hijthmekem
10. Bahasa Malayu (Malaysia) - Saya cinta mu
11. Bambara - M'bi fe
12. Bangla - Ami tomakay bala basi
13. Bangladeschi - Ami tomake walobashi
14. Basque - Nere maitea
15. Batak - Holong rohangku di ho
16. Bavarian - tuI mog di
17. Belarusian - Ya tabe kahayu
18. Bengali - Ami tomake bhalobashi
19. Berber - Lakh tirikh
20. Bicol - Namumutan ta ka
21. Bisaya - Nahigugma ako kanimo
22. Bolivian Quechua - Qanta munani
23. Bosnian - Ja te volim (formally) or volim-te Turkish seni seviyorum
24. Bulgarian - As te obicham
25. Bulgarian - Obicham te
26. Burmese - chit pa de
27. Cambodian (to the female) - bon saleng oun
28. Cambodian (to the male) - oun saleng bon
29. Canadian French - Je t'adore ("I love you")
30. Canadian French - Je t'aime ("I like you")
31. Catalan - T'estim (mallorcan)
32. Cebuano - Gihigugma ko ikaw
33. Chamoru (or Chamorro) - Hu guaiya hao
34. Cherokee - Tsi ge yu i
35. Cheyenne - Ne mohotatse
36. Chichewa - Ndimakukonda
37. Chickasaw - Chiholloli (first 'i' nasalized)
38. Chinese - Ngo oi ney a (Cantonese)
39. Chinese - Wuo ai nee (Mandarin)
40. Corsican - Ti tengu cara (to female)
41. Corsican - Ti tengu caru (to male)
42. Creol - Mi aime jou
43. Croatian - Volim te (used in common speech)
44. Czech - Miluji Te
45. Danish - Jeg elsker dig
46. Dutch - Ik hou van jou
47. Dutch - Jeg elsker dig
48. Ecuador Quechua - Canda munani
49. English - I love thee (used only in Christian context)
50. English - I love you
51. Eskimo - Nagligivaget
52. Esperanto - Mi amas vim
53. Estonian - Ma armastan sind / Mina armastan sind (formal)
54. Ethiopia - afekereshe alhu
55. Faroese - Eg elski teg
56. Farsi - Tora dost daram
57. Filipino - Mahal ka ta
58. Finnish (Minä) rakastan sinua
59. Flemish (Ghent) - 'k'ou van ui
60. French (formal) - Je vous aime
61. Friesian - Ik hald fan dei
62. Gaelic - Tá mé i ngrá leat
63. Galician - Querote (or) Amote
64. Georgian - Miquar shen
65. German - Ich liebe Dich
66. Ghanaian - Me dor wo
67. Greek - agapo se
68. Greek - S'agapo
69. Greenlandic - Asavakit
70. Gronings - Ik hol van die
71. Gujarati - oo tane prem karu chu
72. Hausa - Ina sonki
73. Hawaiian - Aloha au ia`oe
74. Hebrew - Ani ohevet ota
75. Hiligaynon - Guina higugma ko ikaw
76. Hindi - Main tumsey pyaar karta hoon / Maine Pyar Kiya
77. Hmong - Kuv hlub koj
78. Hokkien - Wa ai lu
79. Hopi - Nu' umi unangwa'ta
80. Hungarian - Szeretlek te'ged
81. Icelandic - Eg elska thig
82. Ilocano - Ay ayating ka
83. Indi - Mai Tujhe Pyaar Kartha Ho
84. Indonesian - Saya cinta padamu ('Saya', commonly used)
85. Inuit - Negligevapse
86. Iranian - Mahn doostaht doh-rahm
87. Irish - taim i' ngra leat
88. Italian - Ti amo/Ti voglio bene
89. Japanese - Anata wa, dai suki desu
90. Javanese (formal) - Kulo tresno marang panjenengan
91. Javanese (informal) - aku terno kowe
92. Kannada - Naanu ninna preetisuttene
93. Kapampangan - Kaluguran daka
94. Kenya (Kalenjin) - Achamin
95. Kenya (Kiswahili) - Ninakupenda
96. Kikongo - Mono ke zola nge (mono ke' zola nge')
97. Kiswahili - Nakupenda
98. Konkani - Tu magel moga cho
99. Korean - SA LANG HAE / Na No Sa Lan H

1. Kurdish - Khoshtm Auyt
2. Laos - Chanrackkun
3. Latin - Te amo
4. Latvian - Es mîlu Tevi
5. Lebanese - Bahibak
6. Lingala - Nalingi yo
7. Lithuanian - As Myliu Tave
8. Lojban - mi do prami
9. Luo - Aheri
10. Luxembourgeois - Ech hun dech gäer
11. Macedonian - Jas Te Sakam
12. Madrid - lingo Me molas, tronca
13. Maiese - Wa wa
14. Malay - Saya cintakan mu / Saya cinta mu
15. Maltese - Inhobbok hafna
16. Marathi - Me tula prem karto
17. Mohawk - Kanbhik
18. Moroccan - Ana moajaba bik
19. Nahuatl - Ni mits neki
20. Navaho - Ayor anosh'ni
21. Ndebele - Niyakutanda
22. Nigeria (Hausa) - Ina sonki
23. Nigeria (Yoruba langauge) - Mo fe ran re
24. Norwegian - Jeg elsker deg
25. Osetian - Aez dae warzyn
26. Pakistan (Urdu) - May tum say pyar karta hun
27. Pandacan - Syota na kita!!
28. Pangasinan - Inaru Taka
29. Papiamento - Mi ta stimabo
30. Persian - Tora Doost Darem
31. Pig Latin - I-yea Ove-lea Ou-yea
32. Polish - Kocham Cie
33. Portuguese (Brazilian) - Eu te amo
34. Punjabi - me tumse pyar ker ta hu'
35. Quenya - Tye-mela'ne
36. Romanian - Te ador (stronger)
37. Romanian - Te iubesc
38. Russian - Ya tyebya lyublyu
39. Samoan - Ou te alofa outou
40. Sanskrit - tvayi snihyaami
41. Scottish Gaelic - Tha gra\dh agam ort

1. Serbo-Croatian - Volim te
2. Setswana - Ke a go rata
3. Shona - Ndinokuda
4. Sign language - Spread hand out so no fingers are touching. Bring in middle & ring fingers and touch then to the palm of your hand.
5. Sindhi - Maa tokhe pyar kendo ahyan
6. Singhalese - Mama oyaata aadareyi
7. Slovenian - ljubim te
8. South Sotho - Ke o Rata
9. Spanish - Te quiero / te amo / yo amor
10. Sri Lanka - mame adhare
11. Surinam - Mi lobi joe
12. Swahili - Naku penda
13. Swedish - Jag älskar dig
14. Swiss-German - Ch-ha di gärn
15. Tagalong - Mahal Kita / Iniibig kita
16. Tahitian - Ua here au ia oe
17. Taiwanese - Wa ga ei li
18. Tamil - Naan Unnai Khadalikkeren
19. Telugu - Nenu Ninnu Premisthunnanu
20. Thailand - Khao Raak Thoe / chun raak ter
21. Tunisian - Ha eh bak
22. Turkish - Seni Seviyorum
23. Ukrainian - Yalleh blutebeh / ya tebe kohayu
24. Urdu - Mea tum se pyaar karta hu (to a girl)
25. Urdu - Mea tum se pyar karti hu (to a boy)
26. Vietnamese (Females) - Em yeu Anh
27. Vietnamese (Males) - Anh yeu Em
28. Vlaams - Ik hue van ye
29. Vulcan - Wani ra yana ro aisha
30. Welsh - Rwy'n dy garu di
31. Wolof - Da ma la nope
32. Yiddish - Ich han dich lib
33. Yoruba - Mo ni fe
34. Yucatec Maya - 'in k'aatech (the love of lovers)
35. Yugoslavian - Ya te volim
36. Zambia (Chibemba) - Nali ku temwa
37. Zazi - Ezhele hezdege (sp?)
38. Zimbabwe - Ndinokuda
39. Zulu - Mina funani wena

LOVE ALWAYS...

How To Get Over Your Ex!

Some really great tips I wish I had stumbled across when I was going through it but maybe it will help you:

Watch these Vids for some great advice:

Some more great advice:

Notice any over lap? Great :D

” 1. Timing 
Give yourself time - any separation is difficult so be realistic about how long it will take you to recover. If you expect to get over your ex too soon it may be unnecessary pressure.

2. Understanding 
Gaining some understanding about the situation helps to come to terms with it. Be honest with yourself and ask, “What do I think contributed to the break up?” The greater your willingness to look at it realistically the easier it will be to overcome.

3. Resolution 
Gain closure on your ex by writing a letter expressing your unresolved feelings. Don’t send it immediately! This letter is for you. Keep working on this letter until you would feel good about receiving it. Then if it’s going to help you send it.

4. Options 
When you are ready explore your options. What do you want? When do you want to make yourself available for another relationship? Do you want to stay single and date?

5. Fun 
You know that you’re getting over your ex when you want to go and have fun again. Start saying yes to friends’ invitations. If you get asked out on a date go along for fun.

6. Reward 
Treat yourself to some retail therapy or a massage as a signal of how you care about yourself. You’ve had a hard time so a reward is due.

7. Help 
If you’re alive you need help! Don’t get over your ex on your own. Make sure that you get some trusted help to listen and support you along the way.

8. Health 
It’s easy when you’re stressed to stop taking care of yourself. Eat well. Stay rested. Keep exercising. Managing your health will make a big difference.

9. Self-esteem 
Any separation is a big knock to our self-esteem. As much as possible don’t take the break up personally. Focus on what you can learn about yourself and how it can help you move forward in your life.

10. Gift 
Every relationship, no matter how difficult, has some good in it. You know that you’ve gotten over your ex when you can look back and focus on the good times. Make sure that you remember the gifts you received, it will prevent you from carrying any grievances into your next relationship.”


More tips here:
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Over-a-Bre...
Please feel free to share any tips that have worked for you in the comments below…



Good luck!

How to cope with Depression

Tales of Mere Existance...

For more practical advice on how to beat depression visit the following site:

CLICK HERE for free online interactive Cognitive Behavioural Therapy Course

It will help I promise!

Remember you are not alone.  I'll walk you through it ( read my other posts and use the links in this page). I have been where you are and visit there frequently, but we have to fight it baby.







As long as there is one last breath in your body you have to fight it and you will come out the other side - I promise - and life is far more beautiful there so don't you deserve the victory?!

Its not going to be easy.  It will take time, commitment and perseverance and sometimes a whole lot of pain to work through.  But you are worth it aren't you?!  And really what is the alternative?

Find something you are passionate about - find your purpose.
Develop a strong healthy Self love so that you can really and sincerely love others without running on empty.
Develop a Love for the world around you open your eyes and your mind...
Lust for Life!
Find and get in tune with your self power - because someone is not always going to save you - so stop waiting for your super hero/ knight in shinning armour or perfect partner, friend or hero to save you...

Fight your demons, don't let the blues hold you back from the extraordinary person you could be and the beautiful world around you.  Fight it.
you can ask your GP to supply you the codes for this online therapy site:

Beating the blues...

Free resources are also available at:
http://moodgym.anu.edu.au/welcome
http://www.getselfhelp.co.uk/freedown...
http://www.depressionalliance.org/


Reclaim your Queendom/ Kingdom: dont let the world miss out on the beauty that is you!

So You Think You're Crazy...

And honey you just well may be, but remember nothing is permanent - and you can get help. Just find your voice and ask for it. It really is that simple.

How to tell your family you have mental problems/illness:
http://time-to-change.org.uk/take-action/talk-about-mental-health/telling-s omeone-about-your-mental-health-problem
Remember you have nothing to be ashamed of. God loves variety just look around you. That’s why there is a very special place in this world for everyone. Including YOU.

Other great resources:
http://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/
http://www.mind.org.uk/help/diagnoses...
http://www.sane.org.uk/
http://www.nhs.uk/Conditions/Mental-h...

For family and friends of people with mental illness:
http://www.mentalhealthcare.org.uk/
http://www.mind.org.uk/help/i_know_so...

You Are Wonderful, Yet You Don't Even Know It!

You Are Wonderful, Yet You Don't Even Know It!
Bathe in you're extraordinariness.  Somewhere, out there someone is wondering what it would be like to be just like you and wishing they could trade places if only for a day!

Be Bold!  Be Beautiful!  Be You! Just Be...